Meeting Ladies

Guys question me about " attracting women " and "how to attract women " and similar topics frequently .

But the reality of the matter for all of these type of questions is there is no "dating guru" that can give you any better advice than good old "experience".

But naturally the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to attract women?

You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I composed my first e-book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.

To start with, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.

And I am not talking about people who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.

However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and steady interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.

Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?

"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.

Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.

Most of us adults never truly followed good old mom and dad's advice. We instead met someone we kind of liked and connected with them and ignored the rest.

Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.

Unfortunately, there is a big difference between "acceptable�" and "ideal"� and also sad to say most people ordinarily continue this routine of connecting with the first "acceptable"� person who comes along well into adulthood.

We call this "settling".

We call this "compromising".

We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.

Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was exactly right for us.

Most of us didn't even have an understanding of our own character and what what would be a good match for us. We founded our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.

But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.

And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and about and got a lot of experience.